Archive for August, 2011
There are a myriad of reasons to learn exactly how to please a woman with your hands. If you’re one of our many regular readers, you already know exactly how important it is to be able to lead the way when it comes to experiences in the bedroom (or anywhere else you get a girl in the mood).
Women want and NEED a man who takes charge and knows what he is doing sexually. Not only is it a major turn-on and attraction switch when a guy does have lovemaking skills, but if you don’t have these valuable skills, it can be a major turn-OFF and a dealbreaker for many women. When it comes to getting in a woman’s pants, the first time can be the last time if you don’t know what to do.
LIKEWISE, when you know exactly what to do to get her turned on and get her off, it can be the start to a wonderful sex and dating life. Guys who know how to take care of women’s sexual needs are actually few and far between, so when you learn the ropes of the ideal female sexual experience, it will open you up to a world of new women who will LOVE to spend time and be with you. It is BY FAR one of the single greatest things you can do to get more quality women in your life and KEEP the ones you want!
Knowing how to please a woman with your hands is a huge component to the whole process of pleasuring a woman, and a huge part of foreplay and leading women into further sexual adventures and fun. Read on for 3 key tips on how to pleasure a woman with your hands.
How to Please a Woman With Your Hands | The Setup
First things first: Be sure you’re clean in all the ways that matter. Make sure your nails are clean underneath, trimmed, and clear of any edges or sharpness. Good grooming habits are huge when you are going to have your hands “down there” on a woman and yes, she will notice. Also, be clean shaven. Studies have shown that women enjoy kissing men with a smooth, freshly-shaven face much more than guys who have any kind of beard, mustache, or stubble. This in itself is HUGE.
Next, make sure you are in a place where you both will be comfortable engaging in sexual activity. It’s been said that the #1 thing that decides if a woman can even have an orgasm (besides the technique a guy uses) is whether or not she is comfortable. A woman has to feel safe and secure wherever you are getting intimate with her, otherwise she won’t be able to have an orgasm no matter how good you are. For this reason, make sure she is comfy, and you are ideally in a very private setting like a bedroom or private house.
Lastly, some other things to have on hand:
- condoms(in case things escalate from simple “hand work” to a bit more…)
- breath mints (kissing is key, and she wants to kiss you when you have good breath)
- water (drinking water before a sexual experience has been shown to give men more energy and better smelling breath)
Once the stage is set, you are off to the next level in the pantheon of seduction…
How to Satisfy a Woman With Your Hands | The Warm-Up
Before you dive in hands-first, you need to warm her up, so to speak. Foreplay is the name of the game here. While there are Amazing resources to give you the BEST tips on foreplay, here’s a quick primer:
- Kiss her- Softly and slowly at first, but keep escalating, and then pulling back slightly. The key to being a good kisser is to play push-pull, match her rhythym, and escalate whenever you can.
- Caress her all over- Run your hands all over her body, slowly, and work your way to her breasts, butt, and eventually “down south”
- Warm her up Down There- Start rubbing the outside of her panties softly, while you kiss her. You should be able to feel when she starts to get “wet” and when she does, now is the time to remove her panties or slide them sideways, whatever she complies with the easiest
Now, you’re ready to ramp it up!
How to Pleasure a Woman With Your Hands | Getting Down to Business
In the previous steps, you got her in the mood and made her feel good. Now, you’re going to make her feel REALLY good.
The clitoris is the absolute #1 place to stimulate for 99% of women. When she’s wet, try to use the tips of your index and middle fingers to rub her clitoris very softly in a small, smooth, circular motion. You’ll know when you’re doing it right by her reaction to what you’re doing. If she moans, tells you “that feels so good!” or grabs your hand and presses it in harder, then you are doing everything right. Keep going.
If you don’t get that reaction within a matter of minutes, switch up the game play. Insert those same fingers into her vagina and move them in and out slowly to start. Shortly thereafter, move them into a kind of “hook” position and slowly massage the top wall of the inside of her vagina about 2-2 1/2 inches in; this is her G-spot, and it can be the key to unlocking a woman’s orgasm. A small circular motion or a slight back-and-forth rubbing can do the trick nicely here.
As always, tell her to tell you what she likes; this can be your number one indicator as to whether or not you’re headed in the right direction down there.
No matter what works for a woman, every technique requires repetitive motion. If something is working for her, KEEP GOING. Don’t switch it up unless she tells you to or you can sense it’s just not doing anything for her.
Either way, the Clitoris and the G-Spot are the keys to knowing how to pleasure a woman with your fingers. Get your rhythm down and stick to it.
How to Please a Woman with Your Hands |Resources
As always, thanks for reading, we hope you’ve gained some insight on how to improve your dating and sex life. For more on learning how to please a woman with your hands, check out the #1 Guide on giving women what they want in bed HERE.
Regards, the How to Please a Woman team